We've all had a certain person with whom we became infatuated. In some cases we even fall in love with these people. The problem with this is that sometimes it can seem completely impossible that they would ever feel the same way. Like their attention always seems occupied elsewhere and there's never any focus on you. Their eyes seem to elude you, but for what reason? Why is it that the one person who seems to matter most, is treating you like you matter least? It may sound absurd to those in denial, but others might recognize that this is a result of your own making. You are your own worst enemy in this situation, and here's how:
The Universal Law of Attraction, a law highlighting the true nature of cause and effect. For those of you who are unaware or need a refresher the law of attraction has many interpretations, but the one constant is the meaning. The simplest fact behind the Universal Law of Attraction is that everything you do in life is a form of energy. Intentions are energy, actions are energy, words are energy, food is energy, and most importantly we are energy. Now the reason I'm speaking on the Universal Law of Attraction today is to help bring understanding about how it affects people in their day to day lives without them knowing. More specifically how your treatment of self manipulates the treatment you receive, through the Law of Attraction. A common issue in not only our society but in the world, is this toxic behavior that enables people to ignore themselves. Nowadays it is not uncommon to find people disrespecting their own feelings all in an effort to be accepted by others. Rather than approving of themselves they sideline their own thoughts and emotions in an attempt to gain the approval of someone else. Now, another simple fact about the Law of Attraction is that you receive only what you produce into the flows of energy in the universe. By ignoring yourself, you are producing that vibration and energy into the Universe, which will in turn result in that same vibration and energy reflecting back onto you through the people in your life. Needless to say this self sabotaging behavior is simply foolish, and here's the reason why. 9 times out 10, people who ignore themselves often face the issue of feeling or being ignored, and are surrounded by people whose attention they cannot seem to hold for one reason or another. The reason people like this exist in your life is because they are a reflection of your own self treatment. This is something that is true in both the positive and negative treatment of self, which is why in many cases people who feel ignored all the time actually are the ones ignoring other people.
You might be thinking "They never want to look at me, why is it that they ignore me?" or another similar mindset. In reaction to this mindset the Universe will continue to present you with more reasons to maintain the same mindset. You will continue to think those same thoughts because your actions will match them. What many people don't realize is that thought, in and of itself, is energy which is being projected and reflected back upon you. The true desire is not to stop them from ignoring you, the true desire is to heal oneself into a state worthy of attention. The real objective is self-care and maintenance, or in other words healing. By healing this wounded mindset you are enabling a healthier mindset which will branch off and become healthier actions which will lead to you being treated in a healthier way. Now you might be thinking "So if I want someone to stop ignoring me, I need to heal?" and if you're thinking that, you are in the right direction more likely than not. There is something inside you that is WILLING to be ignored. You are ignoring yourself in exchange for a desire of their attention, when you don't even have your own attention yet. Healing the source of this vibration will feel as good as having an energy filter cleansing you from within. The only reason most people can't enjoy this luxury is because they can't convince themselves to put in the effort to install that filter by doing the work necessary to repair those breaches in their self confidence.
People ignore the damage that is done to their emotions by chasing after the attention of another. These are the same breed of people that prioritize healing the pain of others despite the fact they have yet to heal the pain that they've endured. In all of us there is self-awareness, even for those who neglect themselves; because at one point or another they had to make a decision to adapt this behavior. There is a thought pushed back in your head, that tells you to ignore the true feelings of pain. You want someone to reciprocate the attention you pay to them, but then continue the pattern of chasing after someone who has little to no focus on you. Error exists in this mindset, because a person who does not ignore themselves CANNOT be ignored by others.
That is because they will recognize their own pain, wan to repair their own feelings of neglect and rejection. For someone who does not ignore themselves, and addresses their emotions internally will recognize that these feelings are chosen because they can be prevented. These people have the wherewithal to address themselves rather than dismiss their own feelings of being ignored as well as the self attendance to disable these feelings by placing themselves in a new situation. A situation with new people and different priorities in which they will blend seamlessly without ever wondering why they're being ignored. Address yourselves, and you will be addressed by those who surround you. Love and Light
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